Sending Flowers to a Man

Are there any rules for sending flowers to a man?

Well, not necessarily rules but a few things to keep in mind:

• First of all remember that men love flowers. A survey conducted by the Society of American Florists showed that over 60% of men surveyed would like to receive flowers on Valentine's Day. Similar research has turned up the same information, so don't be shy.

• Men are stimulated by color and are visually oriented. Research shows that men prefer vivid colors such as yellow, orange and red.

• Most men prefer a linear style of design rather than a "fluffy" one. Tell your florist that you want to order flowers for a man and ask for specific suggestions. If the recipient has a hobby, perhaps you could incorporate that into the arrangement. For example, if the recipient is a golfer, tuck in a box of golf balls. If he is into cars, add an auto magazine or two.

Won't a man be embarrassed if I send flowers to him?

Men love to get flowers for the same reason they send them - to be recognized. Everyone likes to feel special. Be sensitive, though. Avoid sending traditionally "feminine" or pastel designs. If you are unsure what his reaction to the flowers will be, test the waters with a potted plant or dish garden.

Do men really like flowers?

Sometimes women are surprised to find out that men love flowers too, but florists have known this for years! Men have been sending floral gifts for decades. Turn about is fair play. Many men buy flowers not only as a gift but for their own homes and offices. It is not uncommon to see a bunch of lilies or tulips on a man's desk or in the foyer of his home.

What colors are good for a man?

Men respond to bright, vivid colors such as orange, red, purple, bright yellow and gold.

Are there styles that are more appropriate for a guy?

Flower arrangements that are contemporary, linear or natural styles are best. Other favorites include green or flowering plants. Your florist can offer creative suggestions for flowers that are sure to please.

When is a good occasion to send flowers to a man for the first time? What about every time after that?

One way to determine when it might be appropriate to send flowers would be to consider his favorite occasions for sending them. If he sends flowers for birthdays, then his birthday might be a good time to surprise him with flowers. Or you could send them to celebrate a success at work. A party or barbecue would be a great time to bring a casual table centerpiece or loose flowers as a host gift. And just as women love receiving flowers for no reason at all, a surprise floral gift will surely catch his attention too.

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